There are different reasons why people may not be able to own a dog of their own, even though they love dogs. If your heart longs for dog companionship, know there are ways to connect, give back, and receive some of that tail-wagging joy.
Being someone who’s spent my lifetime loving dogs, I promise you there are many heartwarming, meaningful ways to be around dogs and feel the magic they bring – not all relationships with dogs are dog/owner scenarios.
There are many reasons why a person cannot own a dog. Dogs are expensive; caring for a dog properly requires vet care, vaccinations, yearly checkups, spay and neuters, treatment and medication if they fall ill, and regular grooming for some breeds. You may have a job where you must travel frequently and aren’t home enough to have a dog. You, your partner, or your children may have allergies that prevent you from having a dog in your home. Or, you may live in a place where pets are not allowed.
Don’t despair – there are ways to get your fill of doggy love when you can’t own a dog.
Consider volunteering at a rescue or shelter. They often look for volunteers to walk the dogs, clean the kennels, snuggle with scared dogs or play in the outdoor areas with them. You could also volunteer to help at fundraising events for rescues.
Offer to walk a friend’s or neighbour’s dog – walking a dog is a great way to form a beautiful friendship with a dog, and you won’t have vet bills.
Apply for a position at a dog walking/pet sitting company. Many dog-walking businesses are grateful to find reliable, trustworthy adults interested in working as dog walkers or pet sitters. It is an excellent way to spend time with a dog and form a lasting friendship.
Visit a dog park – walk around, chat with owners and enjoy seeing the joy of dogs running and playing with each other. There are always opportunities to greet and say hello to the pups and spend time with other dog-loving people.
If you can’t commit to a dog full-time but have a flexible home life, consider fostering. Rescues often cover food and medical care. You can give the love and stability the dog needs until they find their forever home. Fostering may be hard for some people as they may feel that they won’t be able to let go of a dog they’ve fostered. But remind yourself that when foster dogs learn to love and trust humans, they’re more open to bonding with their future family. Foster parents know they’ve given the dog a strong, fresh start—and with that sense of purpose, they can open their hearts to the next foster, knowing they’re making a real difference for dogs in need.
Attend or volunteer at adoption events, outdoor markets, and community dog days. They are full of friendly dogs and humans. It’s a great way to get connected. You don’t have to own or bring a dog to attend. We are fortunate to have many dog events in and around London, Ontario.
People who go to those events with their dogs are typically delighted to allow someone to spend a little time with their dog – maybe even a couple of cuddles; the most important thing is to always ask permission before touching someone’s dog. Letting people know how much you love dogs but aren’t able to own one of your own often opens up a good conversation. Dog lovers typically love other dog lovers.
Get to know dogs online. You can follow dog accounts, join dog-lover groups, and engage with other fans of furry faces. It may not be the same as belly rubs and dog kisses, but it’s surprisingly heartwarming and community-driven.
Love finds a way—especially puppy love! I know that dogs give so much to the world – not just to those who own them, but to anyone open to their love.
Please feel free to share your story of friendship with a dog you love but don’t own!